Recently I had a conversation that sparked a debate with My boyfriend. I was quite surprised at his position as he has been in a relationship with a dominatrix over 6 years and apparently he just doesnt get it still. Anyhooo, the gist of it was him telling me about a mutual acquaintance he felt could be a great dominatrix. I asked why and he started listing her physical attributes. Tall, thin, attractive....
Not once did he say that she displayed any semblance of a dominant personality.strength of character or interest in Dominance and submission. I was offended. I countered with, so if I can wear a brooks brothers suit and carry a briefcase well I can be a business consultant? He looked perplexed and I realized that he didnt even realize how insulting he had just been to My chosen profession. I would never ignore the years of study and dedication it took him to achieve the level of respect and skill he possesses. So why would he do that to Me?
Why? Because it is yet another way for society to break down the strength and value of the strong woman. Commericialism has changed professional domination from a closeted position of respect to the slap and tickle of a costumed escort.
Having been a pro for over a decade and being someone that existed in the scene before there was the internet I have issues with the trivialization of professional domination. The women that founded this profession were beautiful in their own right but were not models necessarily. Instead they were women that embraced the role of the Dominant female to assist the needs of submissive men.
We were hard to obtain access to and discriminating whom we allowed to have the privilege of service. Men felt lucky to be in our presence and thankful to receive the balm of our services for their murky psycho-sexual proclivities. We are healers and explorers. Not women faint of heart, but women who are not afraid to get our hands dirty to speak.
We recognize that men are weak and need our guidance. That their natures tend to lead them to make bad decisions and sometime they need to atone for those.
That does not seem to jive with a hot chick that simply looks good in pvc or leather boots.
Times are a changing, and not all for the good.
MLF
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Friday, November 6, 2009
The re-education of Shady
There are souls in the world that are leeches. People whose sole purpose is to use every other being they encounter for their benefit. You know them, they call only to compare your life and work opportunities with theirs. Constantly put on their mask of prosperity, when their under garments are in tatters. Sad mechanical people with no depth other than the false skin they wear to fool the masses.
Well Raggedy Ann, one day you will have your reckoning. The loss of people in your life now should be your sign but you are too shallow and sick to see it. The universe is not a vacuum and injustice does not go ignored. I have seen the moon and asked her favor. Whispered to the stars to take up my cause. The oceans rumble back a response and I am calmed.
I have peace and love, you will know none of this. Toss and turn on your web of lies and deceit. Remain trapped forever in the hollow shell that will crumple about you as I dance.
I have joy. And I smile.
So shall it be.
Well Raggedy Ann, one day you will have your reckoning. The loss of people in your life now should be your sign but you are too shallow and sick to see it. The universe is not a vacuum and injustice does not go ignored. I have seen the moon and asked her favor. Whispered to the stars to take up my cause. The oceans rumble back a response and I am calmed.
I have peace and love, you will know none of this. Toss and turn on your web of lies and deceit. Remain trapped forever in the hollow shell that will crumple about you as I dance.
I have joy. And I smile.
So shall it be.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
New Tribute Opportunity!
I used to use paypal but since they got all adult unfriendly I stopped. But, I have found a new system called obopay that works just as well if not better. Funds are sent through to phone number funded by your credit card straight to My obopay debit card. Sweet right? So get those wallets out, Christmas is coming and I have a list to fill.
:)
www.obopay.com The number to send funds to is 4044844793.
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www.obopay.com The number to send funds to is 4044844793.
Monday, October 26, 2009
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Testimonial
I received this today and was touched. So I am sharing....
All i could think about all day was how much fun it would be to spend a couple of days with you, tied helplessly. And where on earth to find purple panties. i guess i have to figure out what size i wear first. Spent and used? Not so much. It would have taken a few more hours to leave me spent and used. i recovered quickly, except for the numb thumb. i'm hoping that'll clear up by morning. It was more like having my appetite whetted, as though i had a small container of fruit, but a large watermelon was sitting there unused.
All bothered? You betcha. The nipple torture you started with was equisite. The panties and bra were a little embarassing, but a turn-on. Plus the bra protected my nipples and made it harder for you to get at them, which saved a lot of pain. Ha! i was very thankful for the bra. The gag was a nice touch, and it was kind of you knot to tie it very tightly. The arm binder i'm ambivalent about. It was obviously effective at restraining my arms, but it was VERY uncomfortable, and the thumb is still a problem. But my discomfort may have been a plus for you, and for the most part, what makes you happy makes me happy, or uncomfortable as the case may be. Except for the sucking on the dildo. i really don't want any parts of it in my mouth. It wasn't a challenge, i just have no desire for any of that. i know, i know, you do and i understand that, which is why i put up with it this morning. That, and the fact that i couldn't get up and just say no, that i was stuck there at your mercy. i see it as the price i paid to get tied up and helpless, which is my real weakness. i'm old enough to know the flip side of being hopelessly restrained is that i'm open to whatever turns you on when you have me like that. So as long as you're getting off, i'll try to choke back my likes and dislikes and do as i'm told. i know, like i have a choice.
The pyrex. What can i say? In the mouth? Yuk. In the behind? i don't think i can even pretend you didn't have me totally with that. Once you got past the pain and got it in, it was all i could do to keep from begging you to hold me there all day. And when you used the electric bullet on the front end at the same time, i was totally your slut. i'm still hard. Been hard all day. my cock and my ass have been begging for you all day. You talk about grovelling. They are demanding, begging, pleading i present myself to you as soon as i can get back to you. i keep explaining to them that there are costs involved in all this, in terms of time, money, pain, humiliation, embarrassment, serious dangers. They don't seem to care how much the rest of me gets hurt, or how long my little body gets left tied up on the floor as long as they get more of this morning's activity. They even want me to replace the hooks in the ceiling so i can hang out here and wait for you while you go about your other business in Austin. Yes, we are all looking forward very much to seeing you again.
The main reason why? You may think it was the physical sensation of being tied and raped but it is really your personality. You are hot sexy fun in a nice package. You are open, intelligent, reasonable, and most of all you enjoy doing what you do, and know how to do it.
You were a pleasure to be with. i could see spending hours and days with you. It was like being with a hard edged insistent friend. i know you took it easy for the first meeting, and the hotel setting dictated a lower decibel level, and sure, there were some things i could quarrel or quibble with, or could if the gag were removed, but i really liked being with you, your whole attitude, body language, style, practicality, confidence. Thank you very much.
Now aint that just the bee's knees?
All i could think about all day was how much fun it would be to spend a couple of days with you, tied helplessly. And where on earth to find purple panties. i guess i have to figure out what size i wear first. Spent and used? Not so much. It would have taken a few more hours to leave me spent and used. i recovered quickly, except for the numb thumb. i'm hoping that'll clear up by morning. It was more like having my appetite whetted, as though i had a small container of fruit, but a large watermelon was sitting there unused.
All bothered? You betcha. The nipple torture you started with was equisite. The panties and bra were a little embarassing, but a turn-on. Plus the bra protected my nipples and made it harder for you to get at them, which saved a lot of pain. Ha! i was very thankful for the bra. The gag was a nice touch, and it was kind of you knot to tie it very tightly. The arm binder i'm ambivalent about. It was obviously effective at restraining my arms, but it was VERY uncomfortable, and the thumb is still a problem. But my discomfort may have been a plus for you, and for the most part, what makes you happy makes me happy, or uncomfortable as the case may be. Except for the sucking on the dildo. i really don't want any parts of it in my mouth. It wasn't a challenge, i just have no desire for any of that. i know, i know, you do and i understand that, which is why i put up with it this morning. That, and the fact that i couldn't get up and just say no, that i was stuck there at your mercy. i see it as the price i paid to get tied up and helpless, which is my real weakness. i'm old enough to know the flip side of being hopelessly restrained is that i'm open to whatever turns you on when you have me like that. So as long as you're getting off, i'll try to choke back my likes and dislikes and do as i'm told. i know, like i have a choice.
The pyrex. What can i say? In the mouth? Yuk. In the behind? i don't think i can even pretend you didn't have me totally with that. Once you got past the pain and got it in, it was all i could do to keep from begging you to hold me there all day. And when you used the electric bullet on the front end at the same time, i was totally your slut. i'm still hard. Been hard all day. my cock and my ass have been begging for you all day. You talk about grovelling. They are demanding, begging, pleading i present myself to you as soon as i can get back to you. i keep explaining to them that there are costs involved in all this, in terms of time, money, pain, humiliation, embarrassment, serious dangers. They don't seem to care how much the rest of me gets hurt, or how long my little body gets left tied up on the floor as long as they get more of this morning's activity. They even want me to replace the hooks in the ceiling so i can hang out here and wait for you while you go about your other business in Austin. Yes, we are all looking forward very much to seeing you again.
The main reason why? You may think it was the physical sensation of being tied and raped but it is really your personality. You are hot sexy fun in a nice package. You are open, intelligent, reasonable, and most of all you enjoy doing what you do, and know how to do it.
You were a pleasure to be with. i could see spending hours and days with you. It was like being with a hard edged insistent friend. i know you took it easy for the first meeting, and the hotel setting dictated a lower decibel level, and sure, there were some things i could quarrel or quibble with, or could if the gag were removed, but i really liked being with you, your whole attitude, body language, style, practicality, confidence. Thank you very much.
Now aint that just the bee's knees?
Monday, August 3, 2009
All kinds of fun....
It has been a while faithful readers, but here are a few of the things that have been going on. I met and interesting individual after a really nasty allergic histamine reaction on My face. Now nothing in My opinion reveals how vain you are until you have something fucking with your face. Not good.
So of course I was traumatized when I was so swollen and pretty much revolting for a few days. Then the universe decided to show me what real disfigurement was and sent a client that endured this condition that was hard to deal with. He had round growths (some the size of cherry tomatoes) all over his face, neck, back, arms, chests, balls, scalp, everywhere).
I have to say that I had a difficult time looking directly at him at first. I could only hope that wasn't reflecting on My face. Anyhoo I attempted to take him on as a houseboy but I found out that he was as ugly on the inside as he was on the outside. Disappointing to say for sure.
Then I stretched an ass from a finger sized vibrator to a john holmes sized dildo. That was note worthy to say for sure. Then the other day I did this cbt session that was just insane. I pulled and stretched and punched and trampled this man's balls to an intense degree.
Travelling again soon. Will keep you posted.
Mistress Lady Friday
So of course I was traumatized when I was so swollen and pretty much revolting for a few days. Then the universe decided to show me what real disfigurement was and sent a client that endured this condition that was hard to deal with. He had round growths (some the size of cherry tomatoes) all over his face, neck, back, arms, chests, balls, scalp, everywhere).
I have to say that I had a difficult time looking directly at him at first. I could only hope that wasn't reflecting on My face. Anyhoo I attempted to take him on as a houseboy but I found out that he was as ugly on the inside as he was on the outside. Disappointing to say for sure.
Then I stretched an ass from a finger sized vibrator to a john holmes sized dildo. That was note worthy to say for sure. Then the other day I did this cbt session that was just insane. I pulled and stretched and punched and trampled this man's balls to an intense degree.
Travelling again soon. Will keep you posted.
Mistress Lady Friday
Monday, July 6, 2009
Doc Friday?
Great news bois and gurlies,
Yes well the title is a direct lead into My deliciously fun new news. I have just become the proud owner of an OB GYN exam table, along with medical stool, lamp and IV pole. Yes a whole medical theme set up to be featured in Domina Shannon's exquisite new dungeon locale in downtown Houston.
So get your johnnies on and get ready to get up in those stirrups bitches, I put the lube on warm. ;)
MLF
Yes well the title is a direct lead into My deliciously fun new news. I have just become the proud owner of an OB GYN exam table, along with medical stool, lamp and IV pole. Yes a whole medical theme set up to be featured in Domina Shannon's exquisite new dungeon locale in downtown Houston.
So get your johnnies on and get ready to get up in those stirrups bitches, I put the lube on warm. ;)
MLF
Monday, June 29, 2009
Rubber Room Fun
It was a blast. Come see Me next time bitches.... I loved all the ass I got to spank
This past week was a birthday week and thank you to all the bitches that took the time to make it special for Me. *MUAH*!!!
A trip to LA, a fabulous night out, toys, gifts.... I am so loved. :)
And if you missed it I did a cbt demo at Dare Ware yesterday that was a blast too....
Life is busy so keep up slugs....
MLF
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
New fabulous NEWS!!!!!!
So just who do you think will be the Diva gracing the spanking booth at the DareWare RUBBER ROOM PARTY @the MERIDIAN in downtown Houston? ME ME ME that's who... Sweet right? So hold on, there is more. Hold on to your panties crew. I am doing demo's at Dare Ware starting June 28th at the shop on Sundays, just after closing....
So it will be private and we can get really really wild..... I love it!!!
Anyhooo enjoy June its My birth month so I hope everyone is loving and laughing it up.
Mistress Lady Friday
Saturday, May 16, 2009
Friday, May 1, 2009
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Free at Last
Greetings faithful readers, I have great news. If you are reading this and have some idea about the dealings of My life then you are aware that last year I had a bit of trouble. I am referring to being arrested with a ridiculous charge made by an even more ridiculous person and I use that term lightly. Well the case was dismissed without even having to go to trial.
Yes that is right, the charge was so bogus that there wasnt even enough evidence to support a preliminary trial. That is how stupid the whole thing was dearies.
So now I will say what I have wanted to about it. This was probably one of the more trying experiences of My life. It was unjust and as close to evil as it comes, but thankfully I believe that people get what they deserve.
Hey I shit and piss on folks so I am not surprised that a little negativity falls My way from time to time. But for this troll faggot, I hope the Creator has something Job-like in mind for this little bitch. Being pug ugly and bad bodied is good but he was like that before..... Well there is always erectile dysfunction but I wouldnt want to inflict his tiny dicked goat-faced myopic wannbe trannie ass on anyone unless they happen to be formerly employed at Guantanamo Bay. But that is just Me being Christian. ;)
Other than that I have been mad traveling and enjoying being back in Houston without all the drama of the weird kind.
I hope you are all well and life is good for you.
Until next time,
MLF
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Ok I can be nice
It has come to My attention that some have taken offense to some of the comments I have made in past blogs. In particular about My comments about men over 50. Here is the skinny people, I have no issues with men over 50, at all. I love older men, they are past all that testosterone bullshit and are usually at an age that they can truly appreciate women for the treasures they are....
My previous comments were directed and prompted by a couple of individuals that really chaffed My hide. So... for anyone interested, I am not an over 50 hater. But if you are a slave that believes that servitude gains you the right to any particular activity then you are mistaken.
A Mistress doesnt have to accept any slave for any specific activity if she does not choose to...
I will leave it at that....
Stinging kisses,
MLF
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Inauguration 2009
I cant even express how engaging and affecting this whole process has been. It was powerful and moving on so many levels. There are no words.
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